Our "Nieces"

Chloe
Lili and Chloe to meet up with big sister, Sasha.
Close up of Sasha
Lili
Chloe

I had these three beauties for a week. They are technically Jody's second cousins. Their parents went on a cruise, so I volunteered to watch them while they were celebrating their anniversary. We had 7 kiddos in this house, and it was fun to have some girls running around with our four boys.

I'm sure I'll put up more pictures as I have time. I'm hoping to mess around with a few of them on photoshop to print them out for their mama and papa!

Family Rules and Mission statement

I found this from a photographer's blog, and wanted to post it. As a mommy, I am always thinking of ways I can cut down on repeating myself about certain household expectations. I think most parents can relate to this, right?! :) I don't WANT to be repeating myself for fearing I sound like a nag, plus, I get tired of hearing MYSELF say the same things, AND I think 3 out of the 4 boys are old enough to remember most of our "house rules". I resist the word "rules" though, so I wanted to come up with a list of desires and teachings that my husband and I want our boys to be raised with knowing. I also wanted to create a family mission statement. I am working on both of these things. So, when I came across this list of things to remember as husband and wife, I thought that these things too can be applied to the whole family.



Here's the blog I found it on, www.http://cameroningalls.blogspot.com/2007/06/love-is-communication.html


tCommunication Guidelines (stolen from some premarital book that I don’t know the name of)

1. Be a ready listener, and do not answer until the other person has finished talking (Proverbs 18:13; James 1:19).

2. Be slow to speak. Think first. Don’t be hasty in your words. Speak in such a way that the other person can understand and accept what you say (Proverbs 15:23; Proverbs 18:2; Proverbs 29:20).

3. Don’t go to bed angry! Each day, clear the offenses of that day. Speak the truth, but do it in love. Do not exaggerate (Ephesians 4:15, Ephesians 4: 25-26).

4. Do not use silence to frustrate the other person. Explain why you are hesitant to talk at this time (Proverbs 15:28; 16:23).

5. Do not become involved in heated disputes. It is possible to disagree without attacking (Proverbs 14:29; 15:1; 25:15; 29:11).

6. Do not respond in uncontrolled anger. Use a kind response and a soft tone voice (Proverbs 14:29; 15:1; 25:15; 29:11).

7. When you are wrong, admit it, ask for forgiveness and then ask how you can change (Proverbs 12:15; 16:2; 21:2; Matthew 5:23-25).

8. When someone confesses a wrong to you, tell that person you forgive him/her. Be sure it is forgiven and not brought up again to that person, to others or to yourself (Luke 17:3-4; Ephesians 4:32; Colossians 3:13).

9. Avoid nagging (Proverbs 10:19; 21:19; 27:15).

10. Do not blame or criticize the other person. Instead, restore, encourage and edify (Romans 14:13; Galatians 6:1; 1 Thessalonians 5:11).

11. If someone verbally attacks, criticizes or blames you, do not respond in the same manner (Romans 12:17, 21; 1 Peter 2:23; 1 Peter 3:9).

12. Try to understand the other person’s opinions. Make allowances for differences (Ephesians 4:2; 1 Peter 2:23; 1 Peter 3:9).

13. Be concerned about the other person’s interest (Philippians 2:4).

14. Do not gossip (Proverbs 17:9; 18:8; 20:19; 26:22).

Obviously, nobody is perfect, and we're all learning here, right?! I think to learn to communicate effectively is healthy, and a wonderful tool when dealing with the "real world", and all the different people we encounter, or future spouse (in our children's case).

Those Eyes!

Gavin, such a one year old look.

Nap Time

Atticus and Luca about to nap in mama's and daddy's bed!

Well sort of...How are we to sleep if you're taking pictures of us? :)

These will look nice as B/W, but I couldn't resist putting them up!

Catching Up!

ok, so the focus was on Caleb,but the look on Gavin's face is just too sweet. Caleb was kissing on him.

sorry about the picture not being rotated, these are straight out of the camera and I haven't touched the folder yet...

He loved the sand, he was actually eating it! His squinty eyes say it all!
Ok, I am way behind on this blog. I've attempted to make an update, but get side tracked trying to create a different look to it, but then frustrated that what's in my mind and with the limits of this blog, I can't seem to create. Plus, I noticed that when I upload pics using Picasa, it freaks out and doesn't work all the time, so now I will go back and try to fix those pictures again. But before that I'd like to post some of our trip to Maui and of Gavin's first birthday.

Jody and I spent 8 days in Maui (with Gavin) in the beginning of April. We had a great time, arguing, making-up, sleeping in (sort of) lounging and visiting a few old friends we made when we lived there in 1998.

Gavin turned 1 year on April 21st, 2007. He took his first steps in Maui a week before his birthday, but is just now liking to get around on his own. Everyday he takes a bigger challenge getting around by foot, but still crawling is much faster! :)

We also had the first time experience of one of our boys breaking a bone! Luca was running away from Jody during a game of family ball tag, jumped off the trampoline to land on his left elbow. He was such a brave and strong boy through it all. He only has to have the cast on for 4 weeks, which will be up late next week! He has learned to tie his shoes, put on a shirt and button his pants with the use of nearly one hand! :) He said the first thing he wants to do is ride his bike, when the cast comes off.

Jody and I are excited to start our photography business. Sounds so formal saying "business" but I'm thrilled with the whole process. We have been given a gift put right in our laps by our friend from college. She and her husband have had a wonderful and quite successful photography business grow in the last 4 1/2 years. Something of a gift to them as well, that grew unexpectedly, and through some heart aches. Her story is very tender and inspiring.

They have asked us to shadow them through this wedding season, in hopes of becoming one of their associate teams.

As most of my friends and family know, photography has been a long time hobby of mine and a hobby that would one day turn into a full time job. Being a stay at home mommy since 1999, the last few years I have spent thinking of something that would allow me to be creative and produce something that I enjoyed. Photography is that for me and starting the business side of it feels good, like the timing of my motivation and willingness to take a risk are merging at the same time! Jody's up for it too, by the way. Over our 13 years of marriage, he's been the one to suggest, encourage and support whatever it took for me to feel happy and healthy!

So in the next couple of months we hope to have a website up, business cards and our name out there....stacielee photography! Jody suggested me using my maiden name.

And if all goes well, we are working on building a new two car garage that will allow us to have an office above the garage (Jody could then work from home everyday), and a studio unit that will triple as a place to welcome visitors a place to stay, an extra room to entertain, and a photography studio. It will have a small kitchen, bathroom/walk in closet and then the main room, opening up to our backyard.

How are they doing all this you wonder? Me too, believe me.....I've learned that you have to try to find out. We're going one step at a time, deciding if we can do the next step with the creative resources we can come up with. We're selling stuff we don't need, including the truck. We're hoping that things will come along with photography, too. It won't bring in a ton over night, but over the next few years I hope we'll be able to depend on it.

Whew, that was a lot of catching up!

Oh-so much joy to you all! Stacie

Details

Here's our collection of eggs!
And of course Gavin had to get his hands on them...
Messy hands, but loads of fun!

Passing of the Dipper

Luca passing the dipper to Caleb, and Atti in the background trying to get that egg! :)
Luca looks so serious fishing for that egg!
Caleb's aqua egg.

Coloring Easter Eggs

I had planned on the boys to enjoy coloring eggs outside, but to my late planning, the weather turned on us Saturday, so I quickly set up our table near the bay window to catch any natural light I could (before the dark cloud covered our house)! Whew, that was a long sentence...here is Atticus and his yellow egg.

This last picture is Luca holding his egg oh-so carefully!

4-3-07

Grandma walking Gavin
He's on the move!
Miss Ruby, just so sweet said, "I'll play with you." And off they ran inside to play (wish I had gotten that shot of them running inside together, darn, next time!)
Beautiful Madisson, jumping on our trampoline. Here, she resembles what I might see her looking at as a teenager.
She is my best friend's oldest child, who's 8 years old.

Happy 4th Birthday Atticus!

Atti requested a banana split sundae, so we made one big one and shared it between us all! You see Caleb and Luca's spoons diggin' in for a bite!
Make a wish, sweetie pie!
The sundae
The older three of the four brodders!

Playing with My New Toy

Gavin crawling A neighbor, Hailee.

Caleb and friend, Shelan in background, her sister Rylie in forground.

I took some pictures of our boys and some of their friends the other day. They were playing in a tree and jumping to the zip line.

I have yet to feel confident in the whole post processing part of photograpy. My goal is to figure it out (soon) in order to enhance the pictures.

New Camera!

Well, we got our new digital camera and lenses! Actually, the second lens is on back order and won't be here until Thursday, so I'm playing around with the (heavy) zoom lens! I love the soft evening spring light as the sun goes down, and it's behind the kids. It seems to give such a soft glow.

My sweet high school friend, Richelle (and her husband Tim), had their first baby, a little girl, Lili Katherine about four weeks ago. I will have the privilege of meeting her and taking some pictures of her this Friday. This is great practice for me and a gift all new mommy's love-can't get enough pictures of your first sweet bundle of joy!

Gavin's Growin' and Climbin'

Gavin is ten months now and is still crawling around, no interest in walking to me while holding my hands, but zooms around the house in his walker. He's climbing the stairs and has somewhat attempted to crawl down feet first on his belly. I'm looking forward to him walking though, if he keeps the track record of his brothers, they all crawled 4 months before walking. That would put him walking in April, around his birthday! :)